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July 27 Love ChinaAfter living in Sweden I realize that I love China more than while I was China. Why is it like this,
At first, I understand how lucky one could live in his own country and home and feel easily with everything that has been used to.
Secondly, the language, kulture, mentality and behavour made one feel so differently and stay outside the native group. Although we would like to belong to this group in local, in reality we do not. The first generation and second probably are those victims of moving outside their homeland.
Thirdly, it is also depended on the country where you move to. If it is such a country like US, or Canada, or Australia, one can feel probably much easier because almost everybody is immigrant. It is just a matter of ealy or late.
Fourthly, you nerver get similar food and friends any more like those where you come from.
Driving us to move to new country is a dream, a dream that people want to see and exprience new things.
This is called
Curiosity kills a cat!
July 24 BeautyIn our modern world beauty in all aspects has been becoming more and more improtant for mankind. Everybody loves beautiful things and persons. If you look at market you see more and more well-designed beautiful and functional products that customers always want to buy. Along with developed life styles people have less and less time to take and understand others deep part of thinking and personality. Therefore, superficial beauty become more and more important in our life. In civilization world people want to see beautiful bodies, beautiful lookings and beautiful clouthes. If you have an attractive body, beautiful looking and dress in a charm way your career and life has already reach a success in a half way. It is called image. A good image as person it means that he is healthy and strong. He is well in eating and training and he looks lively. Meanwhile, she is pretty and attractive. You are selling your image as person and race to your surrounding and the world, that is it - life.
In addition to intelligence, image of beauty and healthy is the key to reach a successful career and happy life.
July 18 Thinking independantlyOne thing strike me very much through understanding a story as followed,
A famale child of my relative is the mixed result between a swedish man and a chinese woman. She is just about 3-4 yeas old. Recently, she visited China with her mother and she insisted in eating yoghurt and cornflaks at breakfust during her stay in China about two months. The eating habit is strongly depended on her childhood in Sweden.
However, a person has a certain behavour, mentality of which characters are developed by and dependant on an environment where the person is lived in during its teenage. More or less this person become instituted by such an environment.
Learning thinking self and trying to come out from the environment where one become limited it is important for the person to understand thing in different angles and to combine them together.
We all affect to each other in one way or another, however, if you are very close to several persons in your young age you will be more or less another copy of them because they affect you unconciously and daily. Then your life and future are heavily depended on their mentality and behavours.
Childhood's problem is the most serious one in all catagories. That is a reason why we try to learn things in wide concept and many aspects. July 13 Swedish life styleThe Swedish life style is free, multiple and divergent. What does it mean? Let me explain it to you as follows,
One can have many lovers in the same periods; or have many lovers different stages in his/her life, from several up to hundrends and hundrends.
One can have a love from one night-love, several days-love, .....up to a couple of months.....up to a couple years......or longer such as life-time. Everything depends on that the present couple's relation do function well or they have love feeling to each other.
There are many people who live alone under several decades or a lonely life rest of his/her life. However, most of people have free sex with strangers as they wish or feel. This situation makes family-concept to be very weak or to break down easily. Instead of having life-time relationship a lot of people have a short time relation(called boy-friend and girl-friend) such as occasion-living, vocation-living, weekend-living. seperated-living, permanent-living.....
Few people are willing to take responsability for their families and they want to have easy lifes. The relation problems are much more seriously than family relations in those developing countries. When problems appear between a couple then they just give up the relation. They do give up their relation extremly easily. However, the swedish do not need cheat (unfaithful) like people do in those developing countries.
If you are in swedish school, you would find majority of your classmates who has single parent. The stable families are minority.
If you love family-life and want to have a stable life in Sweden you may get problems to find a person who is willing to make it with you. July 11 My storyI have a friend who is a beautiful girl in Sweden and she told about her story as followed.
When she was a baby her mother had a serious problem with drug. This baby girl was adoped by a swedish family and the family has been taking a very good care of her life and loving her as their own child. However, It had been a problem because she did not know whom she really could be. This problem demaged her psychological situation and she always felt weak and uncertainty in her life.
The girl has grown up and she has been always curious about her biological parent and is willing to search her identity. By the Swedish organisation's help she has found out her biological parent.
Her father has a new family with a child and he is living a happy life. They have met each other. She is very happy for her biological father.
She met her mother too and her mother still has a serious drug problem. However, she feels so glad and stong to know her mother. They meet and talk to each other. Sometimes, her mother is not so well, then they feel very difficult to communicate each other. She love to be a near friend to her biological mother. Of course, she is very good related to her adopted parent too.
After all she become a new person who never felt so strong and good as her present time in her life. July 06 Life is a full of chancesFor a person who is 20 years old life is a full of chances. If you do not look a round, find and get a chance for your development you will understand later how difficult to struggle every step by your own effort and to be successful in the life. To be intelligent it is not enough to just work hard and to have high education. A successful career need a lot of people who can help and support you in several important stages in your life. July 03 Travel to SwedenRemember it, this is important for you who want to travel from China to Sweden.
You have better to have a trip to Sweden during summer time. It is a great difference between summer and winter in Norden. We are not like Beijing to have very distinct four seasons that every season is taken about three months. Here is more and less like two seasons, a long winter and a long summer (ca. 10 - 30 degree) and every seasons is taken about sex months. The pleasant season (if you can understand it as called as spring, summer and autum) is from may to oct.
The swedish summer is like a paradise and weather is not very warm and not very cool either. Everything become beautiful, colourful and pleasant. People are very glad during the summer season.
However, if you visit sweden during winter season it would be very cold and everthing become uncolourful and dull. |
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